Archive for the ‘Women’s Issues’ Category

A year ago I went through an emotionally devastating experience where I started to lose my hair. To some this might sound vain and trite but any women who has gone through significant hair loss will understand this type of grieving. I’ve always had dark, thick, curly hair, lots of body-too much body;  hairdressers always raved about my hair.

Secretly, I wanted the hair I didn’t have; silky, straight blond hair. However, when I looked around and saw my hair on the floor, instead of being attached to my head, I surely appreciated what I was losing.  At the time, wherever I went, I left a trail of hair behind me. When I washed my hair handfuls of hair would fall out. When I brushed my hair, after a few strokes, the brush would literally disappear in all the hair on it. I felt so vulnerable that I cried constantly. When I put my hair up in a ponytail and its thickness was a fraction of what it used to be I finally decided I had to do something drastic.

My first step was to visit my doctor. There are many medical conditions that cause hair loss such as cushings, hypothyroidism, diabetes, polycystic ovaries, etc. I underwent a number of tests and they all came back negative. Although I was pleased to know I was in perfect health, it did nothing to settle my anxiety about the hair loss.  Now I was convinced I had inherited the curse of baldness which runs rampant in my father’s family.  This catapulted me into a deeper depression.

My next step was to scan the internet looking for solutions. The internet was filled with all sorts of miracle cures for hair loss and baldness. I was alarmed at how compelled I felt to try something, anything, that would stop this hair loss. Particularly appealing were all those hair transplant clinics offering a permanent head of hair. But none of these advertisements offered an explanation.  Why was my hair falling out so rapidly?  I did find a sensible solution. Through the internet I found a medical clinic with a dermatologist who specializes in hair conditions.

I called the clinic and was told I had to have a referral from my physician with test results to rule out other medical conditions. Once I called my physician and the results of the tests were sent over we set up an appointment. I saw the specialist and he did a thorough check of my head and my medical history. After talking to me for half an hour he knew the cause of my shedding. I don’t remember his name but he will forever be “GOLDDOC”.  Previously that year I had suffered from pneumonia which was very stressful to my body.  Mother Nature being what she is, decided my body needed all the nourishment possible and nourishing my hair was not necessary. “GOLDDOC” in his infinite wisdom told me that the loss of my beautiful locks of hair would be temporary.

True to his word my hair stopped falling out after another five or six weeks. Then I went through the opposite experience. No hair fallout at all, not even the normal fallout of 100-200 hairs per day. This lasted for six months or so. Now I have all my hair back and I sure appreciate it.

If you, or any woman you know, are experiencing hair loss, please do what I did. See your physician; get the needed tests done to rule out underlying medical conditions. If these turn out to be negative, find a dermatologist who deals with hair loss. He/she will give you information and options that allow you to make a more sensible choice. 

The use of condoms by men can be traced back several thousand years. Ancient Egyptians used a linen sheath for protection against disease while the syphilis epidemic in Europe gave rise to the first published account of the condom.  Since the nineteenth century, condoms have been one of the most popular methods of contraception in the world.  Although a very useful tool to prevent transmission of sexually transmitted diseases and a useful birth control method, it left the decision making to the male.

The discovery of the birth control pill enabled women to prevent pregnancy while remaining sexually active. However the birth control pill is ineffective in protecting against sexually transmitted diseases. It is only with the invention of the female condom that women have had the power to protect themselves while enjoying a sexual encounter. A women may be able to use the female condom if her partner refuses to use a condom himself.  The female condom is a strong, soft, transparent sheath, with a flexible ring at each end, worn by a woman during sex. It provides a barrier between partners to prevent sharing of bodily fluids like semen, blood, or saliva. This helps ensure that sexually transmitted infections are not passed and pregnancy does not occur. Female condoms are 79-95% effective.

The female condom has many other advantages as well. The female condom can be inserted up to eight hours before intercourse and therefore does not interfere with that special moment. It is made of polyurethane and nitrile and these materials are less likely to cause an allergic reaction than latex. Also, they can be used with oil-based as well as water-based lubricants.  These materials are thin and conduct heat well, so sensation is preserved.

However, the female condom does have some disadvantages;  it can make a crinkling noise during sexual intercourse but adding more lubricant can lessen this problem. The outer frame is visible outside the vagina making some women self-conscious. The female condom is not difficult to use but it may take some practice to get used to. It is recommended that first-time users review instructions and diagrams and also take time to practice before actually using them during sex.

One of the biggest disadvantages is that they are not always easy to find.  In some countries these condoms are hardly available at all. But in countries where it is actively promoted, such as South Africa, Zimbabwe and Brazil, it is widely used.   In North America, these condoms are sold over-the-counter and are available in most drugstores. If you cannot find them locally, you can buy them on the internet. 

The World Health Organization (WHO) and The United Nations HIV/AIDS programs (UNAIDS) are encouraging wider access to the female condom as a method of preventing both pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. They recognize the importance and effectiveness of the female condom and are working to make it available globally.